i really couldn't care less how a player wants to play if they tell me. If they whisper and say, "I'm a magical princess (WM), whose father's kingdom was razed in the battle of guadala'hara jal, and has been exiled by the evil overlord Poopoocockah these 80 long years. If she asks me to play the role of a swashbuckler who found her unconscious in a rural mountain country, near a desert that dunes into the coast of bitchyafaceoff, I'm game for 5 or 10 minutes.
If she doesn't want me to attack I won't attack even if she gives me consent blah blah blah. If I'm bored who cares. This is a fantasy roleplaying game, if that's not fantasy roleplaying I don't know what is.
What I don't like is people who report, and cry, and whine, think the game is all about them, and generally suck as human beings.